Children are not naughty by choice; instead, it’s their natural way of communicating that something isn’t right for them. Understanding this fundamental aspect of their behavior is crucial for caregivers and educators alike. Using a variety of methods, including active listening and thoughtful observation, I can help them learn to harness their voice effectively, teaching them to express their feelings and needs in a healthier manner. This guidance enables them to articulate what is bothering them instead of resorting to disruptive behavior, fostering a more positive and understanding environment for everyone involved. Through patience and consistent support, we can create spaces where children feel safe to share their thoughts and emotions, ultimately empowering them to navigate their experiences more successfully.

Children who look away from the family home often have additional needs for support due to the myriad difficulties they have experienced and the complex coping strategies they develop in order to survive in challenging environments. These children may struggle with feelings of displacement and disconnection, and their psychological needs can be particularly intricate, often leaving professionals and their caregivers grappling to understand their behavior and emotions effectively. It is essential to recognize that traditional approaches may not address the unique challenges these children face. I can offer insights into understanding these needs and provide well-tested strategies that have been successful in supporting similar cases. My approach is backed by a combination of innovative theories and therapies, including Theraplay and the Dynamic-Maturational Model of Attachment and Adaptation (DMM), which emphasises the importance of nurturing relationships and attunement. Additionally, I incorporate art-based or story-led therapies that allow children to express their feelings and experiences creatively, enabling a therapeutic process that is not only insightful but also engaging for the child. By acknowledging their unique experiences and providing tailored support, we can foster a sense of safety and trust that facilitates healing and growth.